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Unapologetically Worked Up: Reflections on Empathy in Today's Political Climate

April 17, 2025 by Nicole Pellegrini in Life Lessons, Personal Growth, Personal

When we let our compassion fuel our actions, we can work together to create a more just, inclusive, and caring world.

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April 17, 2025 /Nicole Pellegrini
politics, empathy, social justice, emotional connection, compassion
Life Lessons, Personal Growth, Personal
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Why No One is Buying What You’re Selling

March 20, 2024 by Nicole Pellegrini in Entrepreneurship, Career, Advice

The secret to selling success? It's not just about the product, but the promise it holds. Learn how to shift your approach from selling items to selling aspirations, solving pain points, and enhancing pleasure.

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March 20, 2024 /Nicole Pellegrini
marketing, branding, pain points, pleasure points, selling your product, customer service
Entrepreneurship, Career, Advice
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Why I Bring Vulnerability to Work

April 21, 2022 by Nicole Pellegrini in Advice, Career, Life Lessons, Mental Health, Personal Growth

We are conditioned to believe that strength means sucking it up, holding our tongue, biting the bullet, and just carrying through our work days as if we don’t have a life outside the office. But it’s not true. There is strength and power in bringing vulnerability to work…

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April 21, 2022 /Nicole Pellegrini
vulnerability, emotional connection, vulnerability at work, creative professional
Advice, Career, Life Lessons, Mental Health, Personal Growth
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How to Find Love in Los Angeles

April 13, 2022 by Nicole Pellegrini in Advice, Personal

As someone who navigated the LA dating scene for 12 years, here’s my advice on how to find love in the City of Angels.

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April 13, 2022 /Nicole Pellegrini
finding love, Los Angeles, Dating in LA, online dating, dating in los angeles, satire, humor blog
Advice, Personal
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Morning Gratitude: A Poem

March 15, 2022 by Nicole Pellegrini in Mindful Living, Personal, Personal Growth, Poetry

Morning Gratitude: A Poem - Learning to embrace and love all of me, not just the parts that are easy.

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March 15, 2022 /Nicole Pellegrini
gratitude, poetry, writer, love yourself, grateful, practicing gratitude, learn to love all of you
Mindful Living, Personal, Personal Growth, Poetry
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Choose to See the Beauty in Life

March 10, 2022 by Nicole Pellegrini in Mindful Living, Personal Growth

We can choose to be upset when the sun isn't shining, or we can choose to be inspired, and find joy in the little things no matter what the weather is doing, knowing that the sun will shine again.

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March 10, 2022 /Nicole Pellegrini
nature is beautiful, choose gratitude, find joy in the little things
Mindful Living, Personal Growth
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A Christmas Letter to You, Mom

December 24, 2021 by Nicole Pellegrini in Mental Health, Personal

It’s my first Christmas without you, Mom.

They say the first holiday after losing a loved one is the hardest. They say that only time can heal. My therapist, whom I think you would like, says that it doesn’t necessarily get easier, but that we simply adjust to this new life. For me, that’s a life without you.

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December 24, 2021 /Nicole Pellegrini
Christmas, grief, grieving, losing your mom
Mental Health, Personal

The Night I Remembered to See My Light

December 20, 2021 by Nicole Pellegrini in Life Lessons, Mental Health, Personal, Personal Growth

This moment was a turning point in my life. It took me some time after this night to fully free myself from the shackles of someone so manipulative and controlling, someone who made me somehow believe that if I left, there would be no one in the world who could possibly love me…

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December 20, 2021 /Nicole Pellegrini
self-confidence, narcissists, love yourself, abusive relationships, emotional abuse, mental abuse
Life Lessons, Mental Health, Personal, Personal Growth

Are You Diluting Your Personal Brand?

September 20, 2021 by Nicole Pellegrini in Advice, Career, Entrepreneurship, Personal Growth

Your brand is all of YOU. In small businesses, and even in personal endeavors, people often get so caught up in curating everything to fit their “personal brand” and we begin to pigeon-hole ourselves in a container that doesn’t include all facets of who we are…

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September 20, 2021 /Nicole Pellegrini
branding, personal brand, branding strategist, leverage your uniqueness, be all of you
Advice, Career, Entrepreneurship, Personal Growth
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Grief

September 07, 2021 by Nicole Pellegrini in Mental Health, Personal

It’s been almost 2 months to the day that my mom passed away…

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September 07, 2021 /Nicole Pellegrini
grief, grieving, losing your mom, depression
Mental Health, Personal

Choose Courage over Comfort

May 27, 2021 by Nicole Pellegrini in Advice, Life Lessons, Personal Growth, Entrepreneurship

When's the last time you did something that felt courageous? Something that felt a bit scary, but you took a chance. Or something that made you feel vulnerable and you did it anyway…

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May 27, 2021 /Nicole Pellegrini
Courage over Comfort, Strive to Fail, taking chances
Advice, Life Lessons, Personal Growth, Entrepreneurship
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Turn Off Push Notifications to Restore Work-Life Balance

February 20, 2021 by Nicole Pellegrini in Adventure, Advice, Mental Health, Mindful Living

As someone who struggles to find balance in our "always on" world - between freelancing, working from home, and especially working in social media and digital marketing, I regularly feel fatigued by the constant connection. I’m constantly looking for ways to improve my mental health, productivity and overall energy levels, so I figured I would try turning off my push notifications as soon as I returned from my trip. Admittedly, the first 24 hours were a little weird as I was afraid of missing something…

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February 20, 2021 /Nicole Pellegrini
Getaway House, Getaway Often, Unplug, Digital Detox, Productivity Tips, Work-Life Balance, mental health
Adventure, Advice, Mental Health, Mindful Living
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Meditation and Surrendering to the Present Moment

January 26, 2021 by Nicole Pellegrini in Health & Wellness, Mental Health, Mindful Living, Personal Growth

I think there's this expectation or misunderstanding that meditation is supposed to be a state of quietness which often translates to nothing. No thoughts, no emotions. Be still, don't think, don't move.

When in reality, meditation is the state of presence; is to Be…

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January 26, 2021 /Nicole Pellegrini
meditation, meditate, the real meaning of meditation, presence, just BE, surrender to the present moment
Health & Wellness, Mental Health, Mindful Living, Personal Growth
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Your Words Matter and So Do Your Actions

January 10, 2021 by Nicole Pellegrini in Community Service, Advice, Life Lessons, Mindful Living, Personal Growth

In turbulent times such as these, I believe it’s important to remember that not everyone processes information in the same way, and speaking out takes more courage for some than others. As someone who often lives in her head, it takes a lot of time for me to process events. I like to observe and research; seek perspectives from all sides of a situation before formulating an opinion I feel confident in. I spend a lot of time in self-reflection simply trying to figure out why I even feel the way I do….

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January 10, 2021 /Nicole Pellegrini
Your words matter, Your actions matter, self-reflect, words possess and energetic frequency, be compassionate toward others, how to take positive action, emotional response vs logical response
Community Service, Advice, Life Lessons, Mindful Living, Personal Growth

My 2020 Top Nine

December 31, 2020 by Nicole Pellegrini in Entrepreneurship, Life Lessons, Personal, Personal Growth, Advice

It’s that time of year – the end of year reflections, the obligatory end of year post, and the annual Top Nine. This was such a strange year, I don’t think my Top Nine would accurately depict the moments I consider most valuable. So instead of participating in the usual Top Nine most liked images, and allowing my social media likes determine the value of my year, I’m compiling a list of my Top 9 most significant moments, themes, highlights (and low-lights) for 2020 because they hold value to me.

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December 31, 2020 /Nicole Pellegrini
end of year reflections, 2020, top nine, happy new year, compassion, learning experiences, lifestyle blog
Entrepreneurship, Life Lessons, Personal, Personal Growth, Advice

Taking Steps Toward a Better Planet

October 08, 2020 by Nicole Pellegrini in Sustainability, Personal, Adventure

I just watched ‘David Attenborough: A Life On Our Planet’. It was the most enlightening and inspiring two hours one could spend in a day, perhaps even in their life. This documentary shed light on the devastation the human race has caused to this planet, but ended on a hopeful note with a call to action to change our relationship with nature so that maybe then, we won’t be the cause of the 6th mass extinction this planet will see…

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October 08, 2020 /Nicole Pellegrini
climate change, environmental justice, species step challenge, vote, protect the environment
Sustainability, Personal, Adventure
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The Relationship I Thought I'd Never End Up In

July 20, 2020 by Nicole Pellegrini in Life Lessons, Personal, Personal Growth

This is a story I believe is important to share because it is not a unique story. It is the story of many. The story of all the people who have found themselves under the spell of a manipulative partner. And a story to shed light on the commonality of the mental abuse and trauma many of us have had to spend years overcoming. It can take years of healing to love and trust another again. Years of healing to love ourselves and trust ourselves again. This is my story about a relationship I never thought I’d end up in…

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July 20, 2020 /Nicole Pellegrini
personal blog, abusive relationships, manipulation, emotional abuse, mental abuse, gaslighting
Life Lessons, Personal, Personal Growth
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Achieve Balance Working IN and ON Your Business Without Burnout

July 16, 2020 by Nicole Pellegrini in Advice, Career, Entrepreneurship

Wouldn’t it be nice if we could just create a website once and never have to worry about it again? Often, entrepreneurs, solopreneurs and freelancers are so focused working in their business, that they don’t take the time to work on their business. Admittedly, I have found myself periodically cycling through this as well as I take hiatuses from blogging, put off website updates and focus more on my clients’ social media and marketing efforts than my own. The truth is, when you work for yourself, you need to focus working on your business as consistently as you do in your business…

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July 16, 2020 /Nicole Pellegrini
Balancing Your Business, Solopreneur, Entrepreneur, Freelancer, Growing Your Business
Advice, Career, Entrepreneurship
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Moving Across the Country During a Pandemic

May 13, 2020 by Nicole Pellegrini in Adventure, Personal, Personal Growth

Moving is one of the most stressful things a person can endure, moving during a pandemic is at least 10x that. Resources are limited. You have to be extra cautious with where you go, who you come into contact with, and stay protected. I know I’m not the only one moving during this time. I see a lot of people moving and rearranging their lives, and if you’re one of them – I feel for you. And I want you to know that you’re going to get through this…

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May 13, 2020 /Nicole Pellegrini
Driving across the country during a pandemic, Moving across the country, solo adventure, Coronavirus, pandemic
Adventure, Personal, Personal Growth
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5 Productivity Tips for People with Anxiety

March 27, 2020 by Nicole Pellegrini in Entrepreneurship, Health & Wellness, Mental Health, Advice

When I first started writing this article, I was writing it from a place of wanting to potentially help people who struggle with anxiety and productivity. I had no idea we would be where we are today, in the midst of a global pandemic – a period in time where even the average person who doesn’t have an anxiety disorder is experiencing higher levels of anxiety than they might be used to. Here are my tips for combating anxiety and staying productive…

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March 27, 2020 /Nicole Pellegrini
Productivity Tips, Anxiety and Productivity, Lowering Your Anxiety Levels
Entrepreneurship, Health & Wellness, Mental Health, Advice
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